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Post  Youve_got_me_running on Sun Jun 15, 2008 6:34 am

Talk about your sexuality problems, your thoughts on sexuality as a whole, things that may irk you about it, things you love about it...basically anything involving sexuality can probably be placed here.
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Post  draw_you_a_floorplan on Sun Jun 15, 2008 6:37 am

lol this may or may not be directly related

but

id say that my issue is that i need a boyfriend haha


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Post  draw_you_a_floorplan on Sun Jun 15, 2008 6:38 am

good topic choice by the way! Very Happy

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Post  Youve_got_me_running on Sun Jun 15, 2008 6:55 am

Why thank you, I thought It'd be good.
I'd say that mine is the fact that I'm in love with a girl who's questioning herself, and is asking me to help her out, and I'm trying really hard to keep my feelings behind my will to help her, and it's not working so great. And she has a bf...but I still want her really bad.
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Post  draw_you_a_floorplan on Sun Jun 15, 2008 7:00 am

so shes dating a guy but isnt so sure of herself ? thats crazy

and she wants you to help but then you end up liking her lol that sucks!!

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Post  Youve_got_me_running on Sun Jun 15, 2008 7:06 am

I ended up liking her about 7 months ago, nearly the time where she started dating him. She knows I like her, and I accidentally got up the nerve to tell her I love her the other night. I didn't mean it yet though, well, I do, but...it's confusing. The quote "Distance only makes the heart grow fonder" fits really well here,cause I haven't seen her in 7 months really either..but I talk/text her A LOT.
Anyway, yeah, she's happy with him, but she's still questioning stuff.

I more or less offered to help her because I want her to have someone to help her, like I didn't, and ended up questioning for 2 1/2 years. So...haha...it's awkward. She may come over Thursday...so I'm uber nervous.
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Post  draw_you_a_floorplan on Sun Jun 15, 2008 7:07 am

yea i hate that quote cuz its soooo true

but wow thats a crazy situation to be in

i dont even know what id do!

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Post  Youve_got_me_running on Sun Jun 15, 2008 7:08 am

I'm dealing with it...well. My guy friends who like me don't like the fact that I care so much for her, lol, for obvious reasons.
It sucks being gay and having numerous guys like you...
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Post  draw_you_a_floorplan on Sun Jun 15, 2008 7:12 am

haha jesus numerous?? well thats good that youre dealing with it i mean what else can you do

yea i always get stuck in the situations where i have guy friends and the ones i like see me as a friend and the ones that like me i see as a friend

i hate it lol

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Post  Youve_got_me_running on Sun Jun 15, 2008 7:15 am

mmm, it sucks. Major. I just turned down a guy last night at a graduation, of all places.
And my exbf tried flirting a bit w/ me today...first time I've seen him since I broke up with him, cause I didn't wanna hurt him...
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Post  draw_you_a_floorplan on Sun Jun 15, 2008 7:16 am

Youve_got_me_running wrote:I ended up liking her about 7 months ago, nearly the time where she started dating him. She knows I like her, and I accidentally got up the nerve to tell her I love her the other night. I didn't mean it yet though, well, I do, but...it's confusing. The quote "Distance only makes the heart grow fonder" fits really well here,cause I haven't seen her in 7 months really either..but I talk/text her A LOT.
Anyway, yeah, she's happy with him, but she's still questioning stuff.

I more or less offered to help her because I want her to have someone to help her, like I didn't, and ended up questioning for 2 1/2 years. So...haha...it's awkward. She may come over Thursday...so I'm uber nervous.

uh oh that is awkward lol

so you havent seen her in 7 months but shes coming over thursday?? WOW id be nervous too

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Post  Youve_got_me_running on Sun Jun 15, 2008 7:19 am

She may be, but, she's ditched me 4 other times..so..and one was to my school semiformal...=(
I hope to anything possible, that I don't make a move...gosh, that'd be horrid. If she were to..well..that'd be another story.
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Post  draw_you_a_floorplan on Sun Jun 15, 2008 7:29 am

haha yea that would make it a different story

haha graduation of all places poor guy lol

so you just kinda stayed away from the ex-bf so no feelings would get hurt and he started talking to you again?

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Post  model through it. on Sun Jun 15, 2008 9:03 am

totally a different story,
but i came out to my best friend today.

well,
she kind of dragged me out.
but
it was pretty awesome.

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Post  draw_you_a_floorplan on Sun Jun 15, 2008 9:10 am

thats cool!!!

damn again i wish i had the clapping emoticons lol

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Post  model through it. on Sun Jun 15, 2008 9:19 am

haha
we really need those.
i'm going to try to make one.

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Post  draw_you_a_floorplan on Sun Jun 15, 2008 9:25 am

lol we really do they would apply to just about everything we have been talking about lol

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Post  molly_autumn on Sun Jun 15, 2008 9:37 am

draw_you_a_floorplan wrote:lol this may or may not be directly related

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id say that my issue is that i need a boyfriend haha


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me too!!! cept you know...not a dude

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Post  draw_you_a_floorplan on Sun Jun 15, 2008 9:39 am

haha

wow


well at least we're in the same boat lol

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Post  molly_autumn on Sun Jun 15, 2008 9:44 am

no really...i need a girlfriend!!!!!

i was hoping i'd meet some hot lesbian at a Tegan and Sara show but that hasn't happened.
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Post  draw_you_a_floorplan on Sun Jun 15, 2008 9:46 am

hahaha wow

theres no use in trying to find anyone at a tns/kaki/killola/ns show lol

i mean really i dont see very many guys lol

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Post  molly_autumn on Sun Jun 15, 2008 10:03 am

that's true...it seems like the guys that do go are either gay, or older...
i mean there are some straight guys but...

yeah well sadly alot of the girls who got to those concerts aren't really my type anyway.

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Post  Youve_got_me_running on Sun Jun 15, 2008 8:52 pm

draw_you_a_floorplan wrote:haha yea that would make it a different story

haha graduation of all places poor guy lol

so you just kinda stayed away from the ex-bf so no feelings would get hurt and he started talking to you again?

Not really, it was just...it was a long distance relationship (I had to get an hour long ride just to see him). And he'd come over 2 times, once was planned, and the other was my step dad driving up early in the morning to get him. He wound up staying the whole time, and he'd kissed me (I'd been waiting, but I didn't know how I'd feel about it). Turns out, I didn't like it, and I realized I wasn't as attracted to him as I thought I may have been. So, he found out he had to leave to help his dad the next morning, and it was kinda shortly after he'd kissed me, that I'd started being a bit of a jerk to him. After he left, I screened his calls for a week, and when I did answer, I said that I couldn't talk, and then a few phone calls later, I broke up with him. We're still friends, but it was awkward seeing him after 7 months kinda out of the blue, cause I'm a bit unfamiliar of how to act after that scenario...
And it was bad, cause my mum and step dad absolutely ADORE him (they basically call him their son, it's strange) so, yeah...


model through it. wrote:totally a different story,
but i came out to my best friend today.

well,
she kind of dragged me out.
but
it was pretty awesome.

How'd that happen?
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Post  model through it. on Wed Jun 18, 2008 6:39 am

Youve_got_me_running wrote:


model through it. wrote:totally a different story,
but i came out to my best friend today.

well,
she kind of dragged me out.
but
it was pretty awesome.

How'd that happen?

well, we were at a restaurant eating lunch. and she was on the phone. and then she hung up and we were talking about her boyfriend, who's name is jim, and i have a friend named jim who's gay. and then she was just like, "if you were gay, I'd support you 110%" and i was like, "oh thanks, i'd support you too." and then she was like, "yeah, i'm straight, but still." and i was like "haha.... yeah...." and then she said, "honestly, i can see you going either way." and then i said, "yeah. me too." and she was like, "awesome. how's your lunch?"


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Post  Youve_got_me_running on Wed Jun 18, 2008 5:11 pm

THAT'S FUCKING AWESOME! I wish I had the fun of that one...I told my best friend while she was 300 miles away lmfao...
I actually was dragged out...by my mom...erk.
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